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Frequent Mistakes Made By People In the Process Of a Divorce

There are common mistakes that people in the midst of a divorce can make. Our Tampa divorce attorneys will assist you in avoiding these mistakes and making the situation unnecessarily harder than it is by providing advice on how to handle the sometimes difficult process of getting divorced.

Mistakes Made with Finances often Seen by Tampa Divorce Attorneys

People who are divorcing occasionally mishandle joint bank accounts as well as credit cards. A more positive solution advised by your Tampa divorce lawyer will be to talk with your spouse about separating the accounts fairly and what to do about credit cards. It might be beneficial to split the money in the bank and open your own personal account.

The withholding of information can also be a point of contention between a divorcing couple. Your Tampa divorce attorney will be able to acquire documentation as to the state of the couple’s finances, but when choosing this route it adds to the amount of time and money the divorce will cost. Being as reasonable as possible with your spouse is usually the best option.

If you choose to hide the amount of money available, it can come back to haunt you. Assets and income can be found relatively easily through pay stubs, financial reports and via other means. Your attorney is adept at finding the truth and the judge in the case will often look unkindly at the person who tried to hide information.

Listed below are common mistakes that your Tampa divorce lawyer knows people contemplating and preparing for divorce frequently make.

The Leaving Process

  1. Avoiding Discussion. Sometimes people want to wait until the spouse detects their negative actions or feelings. This approach usually proves detrimental and costly due to the fact that the non-initiator often wants to have an attorney examine every action and document. You are far better off, as the divorce initiator, to honestly and openly discuss your plans.
  2. Being Negative or Nasty in Your Communication. You and your spouse’s relationship does not end with the divorce if you have children; it simply changes to a different form. Remaining cooperative and avoiding antagonistic speech and behavior will be well worthwhile in the long run.
  3. Confession. While it may be true that the guilt you feel for prior sins and mistakes may be eased by confessing them to your spouse, doing so will usually only serve to increase your spouse’s anger. You would be wise to consider carefully if your motivation is simply a selfish desire to feel better by unburdening yourself.
  4. Making Preparations Secretly. When preparing to divorce, certain actions such as determining your property holdings and gathering your financial records need to be done regardless of whether you retain legal counsel or not. Attempting to make these preparations in secret will serve to damage the trust you and your spouse have built over the life of your marriage. Trying to gain advantage and control of the process by concealing your actions will only backfire since everything will come to light eventually.

Contemplating and preparing for a divorce should be done carefully and thoughtfully, with consideration for everyone involved. Call the All Family Law Group at 813-321-3421 to obtain the expertise of a Tampa divorce attorney who is committed to helping you avoid common mistakes. There is no charge for the initial consultation.

Beginning a Relationship with a Different Person

A Tampa divorce attorney will advise you that when the marriage is in the process of breaking up, one spouse or the other can still become jealous at involvement with a new person. If this happens prior to the finalization of the divorce, there is a chance that the divorce will become more difficult. It may be a good idea to keep things casual with a new person until the divorce is completed.

Agreeing to Terms of a Divorce

As a Tampa divorce lawyer will tell you, a divorce can be hard. That doesn’t mean it has to be worse than necessary. Aggressiveness, being dishonest or acting out in any way can make the process take longer than it needs to and keep you from moving on with your life. Remember the longer a divorce takes, the more money it will cost.

If you keep on fighting-especially when there are children involved-your lawyer will point out that it’s not just about the spouses and it doesn’t benefit children to be in the middle of a custody battle. This can lead to significant problems over the long term and it is preferable to avoid such entanglements by being reasonable.
Speak to an experienced Tampa divorce lawyer

If you are in need of an attorney to assist you in your divorce, the All Family Law Group has qualified and experienced divorce lawyers.  We offer an initial consultation at no charge to discuss the options available in your case.  Call 813-321-3421 to schedule a time to talk.

All Family Law Group, P.A.
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