What Not to Say in Divorce Court in Florida
Divorce is a complex process, both legally and emotionally. If you have to go to court, whether for just a final hearing or for a full trial, it is natural to feel anxious and overwhelmed at the thought. You may have to testify in front of your spouse, the attorneys representing both sides, and the judge. All of this can be extremely stressful. Your Tampa contested divorce attorney will prepare you for what to say in court but it is just as important that you know what not to say.
Do Not Exaggerate or Lie
In court, there is no such thing as a small, white lie. Telling any lie in court, or even exaggerating the truth, may be seen as perjury. Not only is this a crime, but it will also destroy your credibility and call everything you said or will say into question. If you lie to a judge you may also face charges of contempt of court, which are punishable by high fines and even possible jail time.
Do Not Use Aggressive Language
If your case ended in divorce court, you are likely harboring hard feelings towards your spouse. The ending of any relationship is difficult but when spouses are in dispute over alimony, child custody, or distribution of assets, the situation can become very ugly. It is critical that you do not use foul language, call your spouse names, or shout out accusations. Instead, remain calm, reserved, and dignified. The evidence will speak for itself and your attorney will provide you the opportunity to tell your side in a respectful manner.
Do Not Speak in Absolute Terms
Words matter in court so choose yours very carefully. Do not speak in absolute terms such as ‘never’ or ‘always.’ If you say something such as, ‘My spouse never attends our child’s sporting events,’ their attorney will find evidence of the once or twice they did and use it to undermine your credibility. When it is the truth, use terms such as ‘rarely,’ or ‘most of the time.’
Do Not Offer Additional Information
When asked questions, do not offer additional information that was not asked for, and do not repeat the same information. If your testimony is factual and truthful, you do not need to keep repeating your answer. Keep your answers brief and to the point so you do not provide the other side with information they did not even ask for.
Our Contested Divorce Attorneys in Tampa Can Prepare You for Court
Divorce court can be overwhelming but proper preparation can make you feel more confident and equipped for the process. At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa contested divorce attorneys can prepare you for the questions you will be asked, help you tailor your answers to strengthen your credibility, and give you the best possible chance of a favorable outcome. Call us today at 813-672-1900 or fill out our online form to schedule a free consultation with one of our experienced attorneys and to learn more about how we can help. Se Habla Espanol.
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leg.state.fl.us/statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&URL=0000-0099/0061/0061.html
