What are Myths Surrounding Mediation During Divorce?
When a couple is considering divorce, it does not mean that they have to become involved in a long and bitter courtroom battle. Many divorces in Florida today go through mediation instead of litigation. Mediation is a much more amicable way to get divorced and can provide the couple with more control. Instead of a judge determining on the final terms, the couple themselves will. Even though mediation is gaining in popularity today however, there are still many myths surrounding it that are simply incorrect. Below are some of the most common of these myths, and the truth behind them.
A Mediator will Fix All the Problems in My Divorce
It is true that a mediator will try to foster communication and compromise between you and your spouse. They do this to help you come to an agreement. Unfortunately, they cannot do everything. If one spouse is hiding assets, a mediator cannot determine this, or bring those assets to light. Also, if you or your spouse is not interested in coming to an amicable agreement, the mediator also cannot fix this.
Mediation Works in Favor of Men
This is a myth that has been around for some time now. It comes from the fact that years ago, women sometimes were not as aware of the marital finances, assets, and debts. However, this just is not true today. Women know just as much about the household’s finances today as their husbands and so, mediation works very fairly for both parties.
Mediation Does not Work in Complex Divorce Cases
Mediation can help with any divorce case, even those that have complex issues. As long as you and your spouse are willing to work together and compromise, mediation can still be beneficial.
Mediation Will not Help with Issues Related to Child Custody
Many people think that child custody issues are only determined through litigation. However, that is not true. In fact, if your divorce involves children, it is possible that mediation is the best option for you. After going through mediation, the two spouses often feel more amicable towards each other and are more likely to create a parenting plan both parents will abide by, and stick to once the divorce is final. Mediation can help with all the issues that come up during divorce, including those involving children.
Mediation is Always the Best Option
Mediation can help in many cases and it certainly brings with it many advantages. That does not mean that It is right for everyone, however. If the marriage involved abuse or one spouse has a substance abuse problem, mediation probably will not work.
Our Florida Divorce Lawyers can Advise on All the Options for Divorce
If you are going through a divorce, you likely have a lot of questions, including which divorce option is best for you. At All Family Law Group, PA, our Tampa divorce lawyers can help. We can advise on which type of divorce is right for you, and represent you throughout the entire process. Do not go through your divorce alone. Call us today at (813) 672-1900 to schedule your free consultation to learn more about how we can help with your case.
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