Signs it is Time to Seek a Florida Divorce from a Toxic Spouse
The term ‘toxic’ is commonly used these days but according to mental health professionals, toxic relationships are very real and can be defined. In healthy relationships, spouses support each other. They have compassion for each other and show empathy when their partner is experiencing hardship. While these marriages are not perfect, both spouses want to address issues that create tension and conflict in the relationship.
In her book, “Toxic People,” which coined the term, Lillian Glass defines a toxic relationship as one in which either or both spouses act in such a way that causes harm to the other. The harm is usually emotional but can be physical, as well. Rather than mutual support, these marriages are often built on competition and control. Below, our Tampa divorce attorney outlines some of the most common signs that it is time to end a toxic relationship.
Your Feelings are Dismissed
When couples get married, they promise to care for and love each other, but people who are self-serving do not know how to offer the necessary emotional support. Instead of listening when you express your feelings, your spouse might criticize you or make you feel as though your feelings about a certain situation are not important.
You Have No Control Over Your Marriage or Life
Gradually over time, you may realize that your spouse has taken over every aspect of your relationship, including how and when you are intimate with each other. Toxic spouses usually determine where the family will live, where they will vacation, and how many children the couple will have. Your marriage might be toxic if you realize that your preferences and opinions do not matter to your spouse.
Your Spouse Makes You Feel Nervous
If you find it difficult to feel relaxed and at ease around your spouse, it is a sign that something is wrong. If you find that you are always waiting for your partner to express their dissatisfaction or you feel like you walk on eggshells around them, your marriage may be unhealthy. Any type of abusive behavior, such as domestic violence, is inexcusable and it is important to get help if you fear your spouse.
You are Isolated
If you find over time that you feel isolated, your spouse may have done this by design. It is not uncommon for manipulative individuals to isolate their partners from family members and friends. This increases the amount of dependence the manipulated spouse has on the relationship and makes them easier to control. If you find that you no longer have anyone to talk to about things that are important to you, it could be because of your toxic spouse.
Talk to Our Compassionate Divorce Attorney in Tampa Today
Realizing that you are in a toxic marriage is an important first step and may be a sign that it is time for divorce. At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa divorce attorney can help you overcome the challenges that arise when divorcing a toxic spouse and make the entire process as easy as possible for you. Call us now at 813-672-1900 or fill out our online form to schedule a free consultation and to get the legal help you need. Se Habla Espanol.
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