Three Ways People Unknowingly Complicate Their Florida Divorce
When getting a divorce, most people are hoping to avoid a long and drawn-out battle in the courtroom. Even when this is the case, people sometimes find themselves embroiled in disputes. This is not because they are aggressive, but because they take small, seemingly minor actions that can sabotage their own progress. These seemingly harmless behaviors can create unnecessary delays, increase fees, and ultimately, hurt your case. Below, one of our Tampa divorce attorneys outlines three ways people unknowingly complicate their divorce.
Focusing on Winning
Some people find it difficult to let go of any control during divorce. When this is the case, every decision and conversation can turn into a heated dispute. In the middle of these disputes, your own goals such as custody, alimony, or equitable property division, can get lost. Family law judges do not care who bought the piece of antique furniture you are arguing over. However, if you are always combative, the courts will view this negatively.
You do not have to relinquish the things that are most important to you during divorce. Set goals and focus on those instead of winning battles that will only cost more than they are actually worth.
Oversharing
You may think the social media post you made about your divorce is relatively harmless. However, oversharing can quickly lead to losing control of the narrative. Your spouse may take your words out of context and use them against you. Mutual contacts may tell your spouse about your posts and judges may see content that is contrary to how you want to be perceived.
Choose one person you trust offline and go to them for the support you need. Until your case is resolved, do not say anything about the divorce online. This will keep the details confidential and ensure you do not give your spouse anything they may use against you.
Listening to Family and Friends
The people in your close circle may try to give you advice. They may say that you should fight without giving an inch. Or, they may tell you that their friend got full custody and so should you. While family members and friends likely have the best of intentions, their opinions do not constitute legal advice. All divorce cases are unique and if you act on non-legal advice, it could greatly damage your case.
It is important to lean on your support network during divorce. However, remember they are only there for emotional support. Only an attorney can provide the legal support that will make the process easier and help you obtain the most favorable outcome.
Our Divorce Attorneys in Tampa Can Help You Avoid Common Mistakes
The above mistakes are just a few that can complicate your divorce. At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa divorce attorneys can guide you through the process and provide the legal advice you need to ensure no mistakes are made and your best interests are always protected. Call us now at 813-672-1900 or contact us online to schedule a free consultation and to learn more about how we can help. Se Habla Espanol.
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